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Sick of Your Life? 4 Changes for Long-Lasting Positivity

No one lives a completely positive life with no drama or disappointments. A bad day will happen no matter how hard people try to do everything right. However, it is a sign of the need for change when the bad days outnumber the good. The potential for happiness is out there for anyone willing to take the steps needed to encourage a more satisfying life. Here are four examples of life changes that will take people out of their rut and into the lifestyle they deserve.

#1 – End Unhealthy Relationships

Unhealthy relationships between romantic partners, friends and family members can include extreme problems like addiction issues and mental and physical abuse. People in these relationships often need counseling and professional help to break free. However, the most common types of unhealthy relationships do not go to these extremes but still become very destructive.

Self-doubt and depression grow when people fill their lives with those that do not encourage, support or appreciate them. Everyone should look forward to time with their loved ones, and feel better for the time they spent together. Consider a break in the relationship if the thought of a day with someone causes unhappiness or discomfort. Allow the connection to end and look for positive-minded people with common goals and energy.

#2 – Increase Professional Skills

A stagnant career can drain all enthusiasm for the job. Improve the chance of a promotion or other opportunity through education. Finish the classes needed to gain a desired degree. Take a class in something interesting. Gain any certifications needed for the career field. Consider unpaid internships and volunteer work in the field to increase exposure to new methods and ideas. Skill-building helps people to qualify for more work and opportunities with better pay structures. Education is a known confidence booster, and this can also help to improve the chance of a promotion.

#3 – Change Career Fields

People sometimes finally reach their dream job only to discover it is nothing like they imagined. Unhappiness in a job can mean that the employee never feels satisfaction no matter how high they climb the corporate ladder. No one should feel obligated to spend nearly one-third of the next 40-50 years of their life unhappy. Use current interests to help narrow down an industry that seems more satisfying.

Of course, the problem is not always the position but the person. Some experts believe that people can enjoy any career if they learn more about means the most to them. A satisfying life occurs easier when designed around these priorities. The effort to find ways to become more passionate about a workplace may be enough for some people to feel re-energized about what they do for a living.

#4 – Make a Move

Sometimes the places people live have more effect than anything else on their outlook on life. Communities that offer all the services and amenities people want can help to increase their positivity, sense of satisfaction, and overall happiness more than any other life change. Many people now look to inclusive communities like Metro Places that offer a pleasant neighborhood with recreational activities outside their front door. The move to an exclusive community may not be the solution for everyone, but any move can offer people the chance to start over in the life they want.  

No one should spend their days unhappy and unsatisfied with life. Opportunities for change exist everywhere. Start small if the idea of a whole new life seems intimidating. The positivity gained from a minor change could encourage bolder steps.


  1. Mary A Ambrosino says

    Wonderful advice for a happy life.

  2. good advice…